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I wonder if there are things that happened way back when that you don't know about. It is easier to forgive things said and done to yourself than it is to someone you love.
If that isn't the cause, then it could be that your Afamily is afraid of losing you. Communication is the key. Have you let your Asister know how much she hurt you? I would ask her to explain her reaction, and I would reassure her that nothing and nobody will ever change your love for her.
Remember that adoptions used to not be as open as they are now, and Afamilies didn't get the education that they do now. I, personally, do not feel threatened in any way by my son's Bfamily. I am his mom, and nothing and nobody will ever change the relationship that we have. If he chooses to reunite w/his Bfamily, I will be there by his side to celebrate if the reunion is good and to comfort him if the reunion is bad. It is so sad that you are caught in the middle.
Hugs to you.
- Faith
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