my daughters name has remained the same (her forename that is) and the adoptive parents gave her her middle name which also happens to be my mothers name. Her surname has of course been changed. As a birth mother i would find it quite offensive if my daughters forename was changed. That is who she is and that is how i know her. Her name is also the person that was talked about during all the adoption proceedings. My daughter is Elise. The baby girl that the adoptive parents read about was elise. The girl they fell in love with and took into their home was Elise. I believe that first names should stay.
My opinion, just incase anybody thinks i'm being nasty!!
