Hi AJ,

I bet that whole situation made you feel stuck in the middle.

I think sometimes afamilies become very nervous when meeting bparents. They might feel that your relationship is forever changed...they love you very much right...they may feel they will lose you.

Have you talked to them about how this will not change how you feel about your asister?

Is there any reason why they feel that way towards your bdad? Based upon what you have told us it sounds like your sister was a little rude.

Remeber that in this whole situations many feelings are brought to the surface that have been lingering but not said. It can cause lots of conflict emotionally for everyone involved.

Donna