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TERESA K
YOU SPEAK AS IF YOU HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS. SOPLEASE LET US KNOW WHAT THEY ARE. I FOR 1 WOULD LOVE TO KNOW HOW TO FIX THE SYSTEM AND MONITOR ALL ADOPTIONS SO THAT EVERYONE INVOLVED IS HAPPY AND SAFE AND WELL ADJUSTED. BUT, THAT SIMPLY IS NOT POSSIBLE. SO, WE HAVE TO TRUST THE COURT SYSTEMS TO DO IT.
UNLESS YOU ARE A FOSTERPERSNT, YOU COULD NEVER UNDERSTAND WHAT IS INVOLVED OR HOW HARD IT IS. WE FALL IN LOVE WITH THESE KIDS. WE TRULY WANT TO HELP THEM. THEN WHEN EVERYONE IS GOOD AND HAPPY AND SAFE AND COMFY IN THE SITUATION, BOOM!!!! THE CHILD IS REMOVED AND RETURNED TO PARENTS OR GRANDPARENTS. WHO EVER FITS THE BLL AT THAT POINT. IT IS HARD TO WATCH AND TOLIVE THROUGH. WE TRY TO PICK UP THE PIECES FOR OTHER FAMILIES DURING DIFFICULT TIMES. BUT, THEN WHEN THE CHILD LEAVES OUR HOMES, WHO PICKS UP THE PIECES FOR US.
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