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My friend just gave back an 18month old she'd had since birth to a mom who'd just again been in jail and who'd already lost 4 other children. I personally hate the idea of foster adopt. foster care is not a way to adopt a child. Many foster parents fall in love with the kids they have that really should go back to their birth parents and create a bigger problem for the child. I do believe that if a foster child is already in your home and you've worked the reunification process and the child canot go home, then a foster parent should be asked about adopting. But ageincies who know couples who only want to adopt are pushing them to foster and it is heart breaking and not for everyone. Just my very one sided opinion.
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