[lambeausam]

I say take her with you. As of today, the three of you are a family. No one knows for sure what next week or next month will bring. We treat family portraits the same way. Whoever is in our home that day is in the picture.

The only time I would hesitate to bring other foster children is if they are older and the ceremony would be too much for them to handle emotionally. The child would be the one to make that decision. Obviously this is not applicable in your case.

I'm so glad to hear that you are so close to reaching his adoption date!