[mckenna]

i may be jumping the gun here, but there is finally a tentive adoption date set for my 2 y/o foster son. i am planning on taking the thursday before the adoption off and spending it with my son and having adoption family pictures taken (with just me and my son). the adoption is on friday (hopefully)! i am wondering whether i should take my other foster child (who is one) to the adoption or not. she is actually my son's 1/2 bio sister, but at this time it looks as though her parents are working to get her back and i feel if they continue to have as much progress as they have had in the last month, she will be reunited sometime at the end of the year or beginning of next. i am torn, because whether she stays or not, she is just as much a part of our family as my son is, but this is his day and i want to focus as much attention on him as i can. has anyone ever had a similar situation and how did you handle it?