[Lovemends2]

Dawn,

I am so sorry! That she is your only child causing you to think only of her. You seem a caring and forgiving birth mother compared to my stubborn and unforgiving birth mother!

Your daughter really should reconsider someday!

My too many questions and one offensive sentence drove my birth mother away from me. I am almost 28 years old and was adopted at age 4, so your daughter is close age as me.

I could guess the shock, pain, and abandonment issues your daughter faced as an adoptee is overwhelming to her which she may blame even though she may have good or bad adoptive parents who raised her.

My heart is with you!!! Thank you for your imputs about my birth mother which you are so right she got to walk alone without me being a part in her life which she chose and desires.