[Lovemends2]

I have a question for birth mothers only to answer.

Suppose you gave up your child up for adoption and many years later
That child, now an adult found you and the relationship between you
And your adult child turned out in disappointment.

1. What would you say or think in your death bed “I regret my failed relationship with my placed child could be fixed now?”

2. Would you yell or whisper out your placed adult child’s name while dying?

3. Would you admit your mistakes to your placed child standing by your death bed?

4. Would you tell your placed child you LOVED him/her regardless how bad the relationship was?

5. Would you rewind back in life and hug your placed lost adult child in your arms for a long time never letting go again?

6. If you cannot answer those questions above because you hate your placed child so much that you secretly wish your placed adult child was dead or murdered by someone else?

That is what I wonder about my birth mother……even though she “hates” me and I have done my part as a good “lost” daughter. The ball in court is in her hand now. I will rest in peace knowing I have conquered my fears as barriers in my path and yet my birth mother has found a shortcut to avoid the barrier in her path. I felt sorry for her.