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I have throughly enjoyed this thread and have learned alot. I have been married 4 years and been trying for children for 3 years. We have tried feritily meds but they aren't doing the trick so we are contemplating going to a fertility doctor... the thing is... all my life I knew I would adopt. Funny thing is my husband had a strong feeling he would adopt children as well. We also know we want to adopt a Male of African desent and a Female of Hispanic desent. I don't know if I will ever be able to have my own children but I am concerned that if I adopt my 2 dears first and end up having biological children also it might cause problems? This is almost the opposite situation of Jenn's but has anyone had experience with adopting children and then having biologically children as well? How is the family dynamics? Since the children we really want to adopt (as in I already can see their sweet faces in my dreams...) are going to be of different racial backgrounds is this going to change the family dynamics if we ever end up having biological kids? Thank you for your thoughts.
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