I am very happy to hear that some birthmothers feel happy with the hard choice they made. I am not one of them. I am happy very happy that my daughter has a great relationship with her mother and father. Our families are working towards friendship - what could be better?

Instead of asking why people make up all these reasons it might be a good idea to accept that not everyone case is clear cut - some people really did not want to take the adoption road.

Take care
M