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Melanie,
I understand and totally agree with what you are saying. I have read that there is another adjustment time for kids after termination. We were so excited about doing it again this soon because my son just turned a year old and he was placed with us when he was seven months. He won't go through any such adjustment because we are all he knows. If we had adopted an older child, then, yes I would agree with waiting a considerable amount of time. He has no clue about all the court hearings, etc. It seems like he's been a part of our family forever.
We have decided, though, to first look exclusively in Colorado for the next adoption. Just out of ease and convenience. There are so many!
I wholeheartedly believe what you said about it not being the judge or any court that makes us a family. And I guess when you really think about it, November really isn't that far away.
Liz
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