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A BIRTHMOM WHOS BEEN THERE :-)
I gave my son up for adoption in 97 to my god parents. It was a wonderful sitchuation, as I am sure that your daughters will be!!
I was a part of my birth sons showers and it was great. I didn't need anything special to help me know that I was loved that day. All the support and kind words and being surrounded by family was all I needed.
I am so gald that you want to go out of your way to show them both how you feel but I think they both know. It is not inappropriate for you to have the shower or to have your dughter there, of course asking her if she is comfortable there might be a good gesture.
If your daughter would like anyone to talk to, or even if you would I am very open about my sitchuation and love helping others. Please feel free to contact me anytime :-)
amber_grundman@hotmail.com
Amber
Zachary given in adoption at bitrh in 97
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