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I agree
I agree that it would be a bad idea to have a shower for both moms. I think that the two seprate showers are a wonderful idea, but talk with your daughter first. If she wants to parent the baby, she might want the shower for the baby and herself. If she does go through the adoption, then she might have an incredible hard time being around the baby and your sister for a while. I know this because I am a birthmom, and that's how I would feel. It all sounds like fun, but motherly emotions are soaring through the roof. I just put my son up for adoption two months ago, and it has been the worst time fo my life. Just be sensitive and don 't make any definite plans until everything is over with. This will avoid weird situations.
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