Search for Bmm
Hi kelly
I'm a bmom searching for my bson - he will be 25 this year. I agree with other Bmoms - search you will never know if she is looking or wants contact unless you try.
I would never search out my bson unless I knew or thought he was looking for me. I would not want to intrude if he did not want me there.
I saw a posting on a site that I am 99.99% sure is him, but contact info has been lost by site manger so I am now trying every other avenue.
So like me, if my son had not put that posting and I had not seen it, I wojuld not be activly searaching for him.
I say SEARCH ~! Just bear in mind that not all searches end happily, not everyone does want that contact BUT there are just as many that do !
. Keeping that in mind - I would continue with search if your heart says to and have some good emotional support close by, someone who you can keep abreast of your search so that they are available to share your joy or tears.
I wish you the best in your search - register everywhere, register with ISRR and if your state you were born in has a registry - register there too. Just don't post your dob, ss#, add, ph, etc, use your email as contact. There are predators out there!
god bless
hugs - mary
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