[babs03]

Hi everyone!

I am a divorced mother of three adult children (27,21,19) and am considering adopting a teenager. I have always wanted more children but because of my previous marriage, I did not feel right about bringing more children into a bad situation. Now I feel capable of giving of myself to another child that needs a home and family. My children and I have a great relationship and they don't have a problem with me considering adoption.

My question to any of you out there...any suggestions, pitfalls, warnings or anything I should know about. I am just in the think stage at the moment and would appreciate any comments from anyone who has been thru this. I know it is a huge responsibility to take on and I don't want to make the wrong decision, for myself or the child. Also, is it better to adopt in the state that you live or is it possible to get a child from a different state? And what kind of cost is there and how long does it normally take?

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!