[sam_i_am_71801]

I think most people know my story.....about the marriages or what I like to call the "dark" days lol...........my shortest marriage, a whole day......I split the day after the wedding, my longest lasted 2 years.........two years of me thinking......what the hell have I done? Then theres the 3 monther.........and an 8 month........and a 9 month heeee........don't think I will ever get it right and at this point in my life I'm not looking.....havent even been on a date in the last year......my life is less complicated without all the crap that goes along with a relationship........Do I run...........you bet I do.......... Just can't handle it. I am an adoptee.....who yes ......runs from relationships...........cut and dry. My sisters who were not put up for adoption, do the same thing. My youngest sister has been married 5 times too..........she is 28 now. My other sister who is 38, a year younger than me........has been married once........it lasted a whole 3 weeks.....and then there's me I am 39 and single......from looking at the three of us, doing basically the same things when we are in relationships, I don't know if it really has to do with adoption. Our parents are the strongest ancores in our lives.........we are all just happier when we are single. We don't need someone else to complete us......that is probably the key to it all......when we are in relationships they seem to smother us.........treat us more like children instead of partners.........we are all professionals we are all petite.........the way we look also has a lot to do with men treating us as if we need to be taken care of.........but in reality we are the ones who are strong. My sister Diane a year younger than me.......is 4 foot 6 inches........blond hair and blue eyes....cute as a button....just because she is small does not mean she needs or wants to be taken care of.......she will be graduating from law school in the fall.........my other sister is a school teacher.......and then there's me.........I own a corporation.........men work for me......so at this point in my life.........how would or how could I have a healthy relationship? I don't know..........so do I run from relationships because I was adopted or do I run because I just simply choose to? Hummm I just don't know......time will tell all.