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Hey Radiodoll....I am soooo sorry that things didn't work out better for you, but like Deb said previously...we were put with our adoptive parents for a reason...I truly believe that if I was raised with my birthmother that I would of probably become a lying little manipulator just like her...thank goodness something good came out of my adoption!!!! It really stinks that your birthmom can't think for herself...how dare she deny you the warmth and security that a mother is supposed to give....if not at birth..then now as an adult...but it's like you said...she has no thoughts of her own....she is still letting others dictate her life...what a shame..because she is truly missing out on knowing a wonderful person like you!!!! Hugs, Brenda...