Yes, It is hard to fit in with birthmother of the 70s and 60s and fit in with new birthmother. My was smi Open the adoptive mother wrote me for 18 year, some time the letter did not come for 5 years but I wrote each. Many lies were told and the adoptive made a scrap book of my letters and showed them to me at meeting I had with her 2 week ago. I rejoined CUB as I said I would not , but since I am forming a relationship with adoptive mother they suport me. I still feel that CUB is too anti adoption.
I hope to met my soon when he is ready for a reunion.
by for now
Mary Mumby Ramirez
