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Hey Kasey!!!
Good to have you back from your nice vacation! Six years is such a long time for a serious relationship with a guy. But enough to know and ask is this person I want to be with for the next 50 years?
Well, how do I know a relationship is over...umm...one time when I had a boyfriend for two years and somehow I knew he and I just drew apart. Christmas season, I stayed up all night with no sleep thinking do I really want to walk on this path with this guy? It just gave me a dark feeling of sadness. So that next morning I called him and told him our relationship is over. He said the same thing to me. I hung up on him and let all the burden go....surprisely all that weight on my shoulders was gone!! I did not shed a tear. I was more focused and more alert.
About a year later, he called me again and wanted me back. I was dating my husband at that time and I said to him "No way and told him to leave me alone!" He got upset and I hung up on him for good!
So Kasey, My point of view on this is like walk away with more wisdom but regretted that I wasted my time with this loser guy!
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