I truly wish there were more birthmoms on this forum who could tell it like it is/was....the REAL DEAL......not the fairy tale.
I love all the birthmoms here...and feel in some way connected to them, because I never will be with my own -- but the majority of the birthmoms here WANT contact, and have dreamed and hoped and prayed for it since they placed their children for adoption.
I wish there was a thread or a forum for birthmoms who DON'T want contact, or who have issues with accepting reunion...birthmoms who have never told their families about their "other" children, and never intend to. A place where not only OTHER birthmoms who share those same feelings could support one another, but also where adoptees who have experienced this in their search could learn and understand.
I find the honesty very healing!
GIANT HUGS,
Sally
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