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I am very excited about adoption, but also felt I needed to try to conceive on my own before travelling toward adoption.
I understand and agree that adoption is as valid a way of creating a family as any other path to parenthood... but pursuing treatment was also my way of making sure I understood the direction God wanted me to travel.
If the treatments worked, GREAT... but if not, it is as equally revealing of what God wants for us... a family created through adoption... and that is a HAPPY thing!
We might be walking happily toward adoption, but that doesn't mean we can't be sad about what we are walking away from. Pursuing treatment allowed me to walk on, free of regret, toward that happy thing called adoption.
Stella
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