[lemonchutney]

My bmother found me and then she helped me search for my bfather. The search for bfather was easy because she knew his name and because he's world reknowned in his field, and therefore his name is all over the Internet....!

A couple years before my bmother found me, my mom showed me some non-id info she had stored away. (Turns out my aparents had lied all those years they said they knew nothing--grrr.) Anyway, the bit of non-id info really piqued my interest, so I know that if my bmother hadn't found me first, I would have eventually become a searcher, especially with the advent of the Internet.

LC

PS: I really like Trish's advice: Let your new relationship bloom naturally without over analyzing it. I am going to try to apply this advice with my half bsister who is gradually becoming my friend (I hope).