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I am a birth mother whose son search and found me when he was 32. I had made my information available when he was about 19 to 22. I hadn't recently updated, as I figured if he was interested I would have already been contacted.
Many birth parents feel this is a decision which must be made by the adoptee. They have no wish to interfere with their childs life uninvited.
Adult adoptee/birthparent reunions take time and patience and few will ever truly re-bond as parent and child. Let your new relationship bloom naturally without over analyzing it.
Good Luck and quit fretting!
Trish
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