[bajohnson]

If you were being yourself, then you have done nothing to upset the relationship. I'm an adoptee, so I don't have any experience in what you are going through except by what I've read here at the Forum. What kind of adoption do you have with them? Is it open, semi-open, or closed? Are you still receiving information about Kaden? Pictures?
I'm sorry you are in this place, but don't start doubting yourself. I'm sure it is just something that they will have to work out. There are a lot of birthmom's on this site with a lot of experience in these matters. Try reading posts by Skye Hardwick and a couple others. They are very supportive, and would have just the right words to say to help you through this. I wish I had them, but I don't. Just hang in there, I'll say a prayer for you.
Hugs,
Beth