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Yes, I too agree with Sara. Please encourage your daughter to get counseling now even if it she feels that it is not necessary. Sometines it is easy to say "Oh, I'm OK" when all you have really done is pushed all those yucky feelings deep down inside you. If they are not dealt with they will one day pop again in ways that we are not even aware of. I always say "it's a lot like throwing up, it has to come out!"
I know as a mom how this is breaking your heart. I love children so so much and my heart breaks when I hear about terrible things that are done to them especially by the very people who promised to take care of them. You are not responsible for this, do not blame yourself! You had no way of knowing.
Can something good come out of this? Possibly, I believe that your relationship with your daughter could grow stronger because you will be there to stand by her side through it all.
I will be praying for you
Judilyn
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