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Old 07-08-2003, 07:51 PM
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Thank you for the info.
I had totaly forgot about this post.
It was so long ago I posted it.

Anyways.
My views have changed abit since the time I posted them.

I'm still wanting to adopt and planning it and everything such as that.

But I have become more open to things.

For one special needs I'm more open to now than I was before.
I think i would be good to parent a special needs child
due to I have alot of medical experance.

And I'm also open to a boy
now I still think a girl would be better but I'm not going to be picky on this.

And I'm will to parent a child any where under 6
insted of 1-4 like I listed before.

I would Consider older then this but
Since I dont know if i will be adopting or anything more than this one time(As a single parent I know I wont)
I would like to have at least one chance to experance
the younger years.

I wish I could say I changed my mind on race of the child.
But thats one thing I have not done nor could due.
I dont care about the race personaly a child is a child
and should becared for and loved to matter what skin color they have.

But the down I live in is very bad about race and I'm looking out for best intrest of the child when I look at the race option.

Also I'm making sure I dont rush into any of this.
I have learned alot over the last few weeks as well as picked up parenting books.
I also Contacted Local collage about parenting classes.
Been helping with a Cusins kids to get more experance.

Also my state makes one take classes in order to adopt
so I will recive those to.
Also I will make sure everything is totaly right before I begain.

I dont want to start all of it and be over my head.
I want to be ready to work with the social worker
and once I have adopted be the best parent I can be.

Anyways
now that you know where I'm at now.
I thank you once again for the support and input.
take care and may God bless you.
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