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dymoguy,
i think you got some great suggestions from this forum. heres my two cents......i agree with some of the posts, i wouldnt say anything write off the bat. i would wait and see how the relationship with your birth father goes. there is so much more to you then being gay. i realize you might want him to accept the whole you, but i dont think you should be coming out to him before you get to know him.
the most important person here, is you, and your feelings. You obviously are worried about it becuase you posted it, so until your clear on what you want to do, i would wait.
larry, i think i remember you from here and you wrote a life story about yourself, i clicked on your website, are u the same larry? your reply just sounded familiar. I was deeply moved by your story, and as for your birth family, they really lost out on getting to know someone special.
As for the other gay/lesbians out there......if they dont accept you, *****em!!!!! You are who you are. for every one person that has an issue with gays/lesbians, there are much more that dont.
god bless
dadfor2
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