Oh yes! My now 13 year old brother has severe ADHD. He does best with a routine (I'm sure you've heard that before!) he also needs transition time to do things.

If his bedtime is ten, tell him at 9 that he has 30 minutes to turn off the tv, at 9:15 a reminder, at 9:30 a time to brush....

We started doing this with J. when he was younger and it helped his life immeasurably.

Also, homework is done first thing when he gets home. No exceptions.

I haven't lived with J in 4 years, so my ideas might be a bit behind the times for your needs.

I am glad to hear that things are going well for your family!