[vicrose]

Hi Everybody!!!!, I know that my birthmother cannot seek legal action against me..it's just her trying to get my knickers in a twist...I did nothing wrong..I called her, and she said she didn't want contact..I was hurt..but I said o.k. , and then I wrote the birthgrandmother a heartfelt 10 page letter with photos and all..and the birthgrandmothermust of told the birthmother about it..and she got all pissy..and she figured she'd call me and leave her scathing little message on my answering machine...I did nothing wrong for the mother to seek legal action against me..and in my heart of hearts I know that..I just tried reaching out to the birthgrandmother..and even though it didn't seem to work out as I have planned..maybe the birthgrandmother will call me one day...because my adoptive father said that he saw the birthgrandmother in court on the day of my final relinquishment hearing...so I know in my heart that she probably still does care..and I'm so glad that you pointed out the fact that she is probably under the control of the birthmother..poor thing, I hope she calls me back one day..so I can tell her how much I have also thought about her over the years........and how I wish that this reunion could of been so much different than it turned out!!!! I have not lost out hope on the birthgrandmother...but I am staying away from them for now, because I'm really not into being hurt by total strangers either...my birthmother has really done a number on my emotions...and I honestly don't know how she lives with herself...but I guess as long as her secret stays a secret then life is great to her..if she only knew how much damage she has done!!!! Sincerely, brenda....