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Stop the Presses
Ellasmum
You say it well, "Hang in there with him... he's back in your life... his life hasn't been too good, so be understanding with him... Be patient and be loving with him; imagine being in his mind right now. It must be pretty lonely in there."
I am an adoptee now 36 years old. And still just taming the acid regarding adoption. I was diagnosed with Bi-polar.
Caution: do not tell him how to controll himself - he may alienated you, not listan to a word more.
I respect the courage you had to try. I feel for the confusion and the overwhelming challenges you have to commmunicate. In english we don't even have words to describe the wide range of emotions you both must be experiencing. And the child comes first, the adult of 18. Wow what else can i say but hang in there. Accept what you have and wow keep the courage to try and try.
Respect .
Colin
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