[kmalay]

What you are saying is very true, but if the aparent is willing to more or less agree to some type of contact they will use it to discuss voluntarily surrendering rights. My attorney told me that I would not be bound by it though so in the end it is up to me, but what it really should come down to is is it in the best interest of the child. I believe that it will be so i am willing to keep some contact going. If the parents abuse it then they lose that too.