We have a 5 yr. old bio son he likes
computer games of all kinds
Thomas the tank engine videos, books, etc.
Go to
www.thomasthetankengine.com - games, puzzles etc.
brio wooden train set - this also comes in thomas the tank engine stuff - this is good for children 3+
hot wheels and the race track things that go with it
making his own ramps for the hot wheels
electric trains
anything that has to do with trains
Rescue heros
www.fisherprice.com - there is a website of Rescue Heros stuff with games and printouts, etc.
Legos are always a hit too. Sometimes adults or older children need to help with these at first.
My son loves to be outside he loves to ride his scooter and bike up and down the side walk with his friends or by himself
he loves his swing set and play fort
he loves to swim and play in the sprinklers - anything out side.
Of course, I think his favorite thing is just playing with me and my husband, no matter what it is. It does sound like you will have your hand full and not have a whole lot of spare time.
We play board games, card games - go fish, old maid etc. ( a set of these cards are sold at Walmart) my husband and son love to run around the house chasing each other and "beating" each other up - not rough just fun and exagerated falls and stuff.
I hope this helps
What a wonderful couple you are to open your hearts to these children.
Cheryl