[miarra]

My 17 month old foster child's caseworker has written up the TPR for bio mom. We went to court(first appearence), they are going to offer bio mom the option of a conditional surrender. This would give bio mom one visit every three months. I am not thrilled with this arrangement, if she agrees to it, but if that's the only way to adopt her than so be it. Anyway, I'm looking for some suggestions as to what she might call bio mom after the adoption. Would she call her by her first name, mommy 2, aunt? I am momma to her and don't want to confuse her. But she is her bio mom. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you,