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Hi Everyone:
Szypzz,
Everything sounds great! I'm so happy for you. Since I'm working with a residential treatment center, everything is probably different for me. We can't call, the child has to call us--and only on Mondays and Wednesdays! Our DS has never called--not sure if he forgets or if he feels uncomfortable. I'm sure, though, that you could talk to the FM and arrange a time to call and talk to your kids. We, unfortunately, won't be able to have our DS move in until paperwork is complete--takes about 6-8 weeks (this is because we are not licensed for foster care). If you are licensed, you probably are just waiting until the children feel comfortable, especially since they probably have attachments to their foster family. It is difficult to see them for a short time, and then return them.
An Update: Our DS is doing well, seems to be adjusting. He has been diagnosed with ADHD, which seems to be the most difficult part. I can't imagine him sitting in classroom all day--he has been in a contained classroom, which he does well in. We're considering keeping him in the 8th grade--I don't feel he's emotionally ready for high school. He acts a lot younger than his peers. I have to say my DH is wonderful--he is so patient with him--seems to always know what to do in a situation.
Our Social Worker also has been a godsend. She always has good advice. One thing, she mentioned, was to send him back with something from our home, like a book, to make him feel he is part of the family. This was a great idea!
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