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Old 06-11-2003, 07:56 PM
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If she's calling your pastor, perhaps you can explain the situation to him and he can talk with this person. If possible, take the therapist with you. This person will end up hot lining you. Your daughter enjoys making you look bad in this person's eyes and she's getting a lot of attention for it.

Try to avoid getting into a control battle with your daughter over this issue. It may cause the relationship to be more appealing to her. Keep a journal of this persons interference and why it negatively affects your daughter. This may help if she hotlines you. Cancel your daughter's social life-computer, phone, going out and don't explain why, she knows why. Spend a great deal of time with her(except when you feel like strangling lol). She needs to be concentrating on her therapy and working on her life and she can't do that with all the distraction.

If this adult continues to interfere, I'd consider looking into legal action.
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