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Hi: You must know by reading all these posts that 15 is still way to young for your son to accept and understand the whole complicted adoptioon mess. Do not give up hope, just give him another 10 years, he will be back when you least expect it. Always leave the door open, as I am sure you will. Trust me from my own expience that it takes a lot of time for our children to understand the whole adoption MESS. I don't kknow if you have read any of my posts, but I found my son at 21, and it wasn't until nearly 7 years later he came back.................we have a wondrful relationship now and trust me, he isn't straying far away again. The pain that adoption has brought to all of our lives is so overwelming and we were NEVER told just how deep the pain and guilt would be FOREVER. Please pray for your son, you WILL be reunited someday and the Joy is almost worth the whole separtion issue. Take Care-CREED
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