[JuliannaTeresa]

I this Profiling Adoption is more private than you actually think!
There are a lot of Adoption sites that try and keep it private and intimate and relatively 'Quack Free.' It is very highly successful!

There are sites where you post your Adoptive Profile A.K.A. why and what sex you want to Parent.

I am not sure though if you and your husband have thought about what your feelings are towards how you want the relationship with the Birth Parent to be?

Since they are chosing your Profile they may have expectations of either visitation contact, or correspondence rather than no visitation or correspondence contact if you go through your Attorney!