Hi, I am glad that I found your post. Maybe you can help me out! I just adopted a baby girl 12/27/02. I also am doing an open adoption. My adoption is very open , My daughter will have contact with her birthmother, but will only know her as nannie. This is at the request of her birthmother. I am scared that this will come back to bite me in the rear one day. I do not want to decieve my child in any way. I plan on letting her know who her birthmother is one day when she is older. I at this time cannot say at what age. I am hoping that she will let me know when she is ready. How was it when you finally met your daughter. I am just a little curious. I only want to do the right thing for my child. I have so many questions and am scared to death to make a mistake. Any advice would be really nice!
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