I think that telling your daughter you want her to decorate her own room is a great idea. Is there a chance that you will be spending time with them before they come see the house? If so, ask her what she might like her room to be done in, then get a coat of paint on the walls - pronto! That way it will look like it is in progress.

I'm very excited for you!

Kare - ugh on the theft. Not a high point to start on, but at least you can make progress from here, right?

happy thoughts for both of you!