Hi Jennifer. What those people people said to you is just plain WRONG, and Un-THINKING,hurtfull statements-they should be ashamed of themeselves for being simple!! Now I haven't been through experiences like that. But I called down to the Clerk of Superior Court in Elizabeth City,NC and was told I would have to "get a lawyer" to un-seal the records and that the judge would just shoot down the motion to open them up anyway!
Jesus, am I un-safe to be around? I am a city transit driver and you have to pass a 10 yr. back ground check-I don't have any felonies or misdemeanors. But the way most of them think it's like you are being punished for a major crime! Is it so wrong for me to want to find her cause I miss and love her? It s**** being an adoptee. So I say to h*** with those people,please pordon my french. Don't worry about what they say, they DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT!! You are created by God, and that is what counts and matters most. I'm not trying to be Billy Graham here-even though he's cool.
I hope I made you feel a little better. You should print this up and show it to those people that hurt your feelings. It's called THINK BEFORE YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH-I don't care how old they are, or what they do for a living. They need to think 1st before they talk.
I'm sorry they said that hurtfull c*** to you.
Glen
GlenJames@emailaccount.com