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Just wondering....
Are you adopting this child because you want to be her mother, or is there some other reason you feel you need to adopt her?
I'm wondering is this a private or agency adoption, and if your social worker has discussed your past problems with you?
I'm certainly no expert, just an old mom...but it sounds to me like
you're not ready to adopt a child, until you have further stablization and have worked out your own issues...I dont at all mean that rudely.
Having a "preference" for someone doesnt mean love. I think this child deserves 24 hour 365 days a year 100% love and devotion for the rest of her life. Unconditional love.
There are so many people who want a child with all their hearts.
I'd think hard and heavy before I adopted this baby. Is she with you legally, or just living with you and her birthmom, and you decided you wanted to adopt her?
Just wondering.
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