[TillyT]

Hi all -- I'm new to the forum, but I love this topic -- "over 35" parenting. I became an adoptive mother in my 30s as well, and I'm constantly surprised by my new role, even after 4 years!! At first I was surprised by the sheer physical nature of parenting ... nothing like an 18-pound baby in a carrier to tune you in to that! Over time, it's the sheer *depth* of the experience that continues to astonish me.

I'd love to hear from others who became first-time parents in their thirties ... what surprised you the most?