sspete- You brought up such great question. And there are soo many answers, aren't there? I'm a 32 year old adoptee and I must say that even though I'm searching hard now, knowing my bparents at 19 wouldn't have been high on my list of priorities. I'm sure that she has alot on her plate right now, that's all. The desire to know you will come in time, I know. And you've paved the way for her to make that step. She won't have to search long or far for you.
Keep your chin up, cause your day will come! I hope my bmom is as enthusiastic about meeting me as you are about meeting your daughter. KEEP THE FAITH!!!
-Sheila-