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Okay here you two argueing over who is right, is not giving this woman good advice. She needs all angles to look at, relinquishing custody as well not pressuring the birthmother is BOTH GOOD advice. This is a touchy subject when and providing a stable home for the child should alwasy come first in decisons.
She should be considering a fast adoption as well as relinquishing the mothers rights in a timely matter. The birth nother should also be consdiering her own needs as well. They need to think about how best to handle a potential explosive outcome if not handle right.
I don't think this would make an ideal open adoption. I can't make that decison for them. It has to come to from within all parites involved. And thebest advice we can give her is our oppions not matter how different to help her better understand her own feelings.
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