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My husband has a child on the way and we want to raise her
My husband had an affair in September 2002. We didn't know the meaning of "sticking together" until we received a phone call about a month in a half ago telling us that Jason was going to be a father at the end of May and that the birthmom intended to put the baby up for adoption, and needed him to sign some sort of forms to give up his rights. After we argued, cried, and finally talked we have decided we want to raise this baby. It is my husbands biological child after all!!! I have two children from a prior marriage of 10 years and can't have any more. My husband doesn't have any children. This would be his only hope of having a child of his own. Do you all think I am crazy? What hapens next? Does anyone know??? We did tell birthmom that we wanted to raise the baby ourselves. We are just waiting to hear what she has to say. Does it mean that we have to go to court, will I have to adopt her? What exactly are we headed for if we go through with this??? Help if anyone knows?? Thanks
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