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open adoption- Wendy
Hi Wendy,
We are involved in open adoption and we love it!! Of our 5 bmoms that chose open adoption plans only 1 has stayed in touch. We are very thankful for that relationship. We had only 1 of our bmoms choose a closed adoption plan. Our daughters bfamily comes for visits and we go to their home as well. Her grandparents usually come a few times a year too. We are so blessed with this family!! I only wish all 6 of our bfamilies would take advantage of knowing and seeing their children mature and become awesome people!! We have always vowed that we would never try to force a relationship between bfamilies but they all no where we are and how to contact their children and us when they are ready!
We wish you the very best with your open adoption plan!! Deb
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