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LittleMissLost
You are right, everyone needs to go with what they are comfortable with and what they want. I see nothing wrong with making promises to our childs "first mom" because I know we would keep every promise made to her. We are firm believers in that saying " a promise made is a promise kept" personally I would love to be able to give her the knowledge that her decision to place her baby with us was the right decision and to provide her with the joy of seeing her child grow up and in knowing the this precious little one is loved and cherished by so many people.
But, open adoption is not for everyone and another good idea with open adoptions is if someone starts to feel awkward or uncomfortable you should all be able to discuss your feelings openly and honestly.
Just my opinion and hopes for how we would love for our adoption plans to be ...... when the day comes that we are blessed, which we know it will for we will never give up on our dreams!!!
Jennifer
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