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Old 04-07-2002, 01:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Martha

Dear Poster:

You mentioned some very interesting issues in your post. You will be the parent that will love nuture and be responsible for the betterment of this child. For a child to live a lie is not wise. To withhold wether or not someone is adopted is not honest or being a good parent. Has this young lady had adoption counseling of any kind? I would not recommend that you tell her what I just mentioned but I would be thoughtful enough to provide her with counseling. This is so important. And of course to give her time. She may still have a closed adoption.

Best of luck to you. Continue to ask questions. There are other professionals and experienced people that can help you on these boards.

Best to you,

Martha
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