I have been reading these posts and now I am really worried about what I have done! I have possibly found my B/F. I sent him a letter 3 days ago and now I am not sure if I did the right thing. I thought sending a letter would be better than calling him and putting him or one of his family members on the spot. See, he and my B/M were dating back in 1966, they broke up and she found out she was pregnant about 3 months later. She also found out in the meantime he married someone else! Her friend did tell him she was pregnant but he made no effort to contact her or anything. He has never made any attempt to find her or find out about her baby. My B/M and I found eachother about 7 years ago and we have a great relationship. She has helped me to find him now. I am so worried I should not have sent the letter! I do not want to ruin his life or the life of his family, I just want to have all the peices of this puzzle put together. I have no idea if he has told his family about me or for that matter about my B/M. I feel like I am being selfish about wanting to know him. I have great A/parents and a great husband and children. I have no issues whatsoever about being adopted. So many things are going through my mind now. Just wanted to vent my frustrations. Thanks to whomever reads this post. If anyone has any advice, please to let me know what you all think!
Peace Love and Happiness............
J
